Hello Jim, I have followed your writings and such for at least 10 years. Sometime you are waaayyyyy too deep for me to understand, but I did totally “get” what you said in this spoonful. The legalism of church life finally drove me out of “the church building”. I had left a cult back in 1999, and ended up in a church which was really grace oriented, but the more I sat therein I would start hearing things that gave me the heebie-jeebies just like when I was in an actual pseudo Christian cult. Keep on preaching grace, even though I don’t “get you” at times! *:) happy Nancy